Can we just have a moment of silence for how gay this is

Edit: I guess this community loves gay content huh?

So with everyone sharing their stories about their identities and everything, I figured I might as well share mine.

As of now, I identify as aro/ace. Physical relationships are a no-go for me, and overall I’m not interested in having any relationships what-so-ever.

However, I did date someone once. She was a close online friend of mine, we befriended each other on Wattpad in 2016 because she really liked my art (even though it was shit at the time). She eventually left Wattpad, albeit temporarily, and it was one of the reasons I also decided to take a (temporary) leave. We reunited in spring 2017 when I made a new account and found her again, and we became closer than ever....

(warning: mentions of depression and suicide ahead)

...but she was also dealing with serious depression issues; there were several times when she stated she wanted to kill herself, though I did my best to talk her out of it. At one point, it got worse: she went through a bad breakup and was worrying that no one would ever love her. In order to make her happy again, I decided to become her girlfriend (earlier, she admitted to having a bit of a crush on me).

At the time, I was questioning if I was a lesbian, though I wasn’t completely sure. We had a pretty stable relationship, but we broke up in September of last year (the relationship lasted for 9 months). She said it would be better if we were just friends, and she felt that she was roping me into our relationship, blaming herself for being too clingy. Sadly, we drifted apart from there on out...

Anyway, I’m aro/ace, and I’m aware of the garbage that is the “ace discourse”. Since I hate discourse with a passion, I decided not to look into it, though I do know that there are people who hate on asexuals and claim that they’re “fake” or some bullshit like that. Seriously, some people just aren’t interested in physical relationships, what’s so wrong about that?!

However, I have a feeling I may be bi...but only when it comes to fictional characters. Like, characters like Tomoe or Deku make me want to smash my keyboard....hopefully that doesn’t make me a fake aro/ace.

Happy Pride Month, everyone. I’m glad this website and community can provide an LGBT+ friendly environment. Your identities are valid, don’t listen to those edgy 13-year olds who claim that you’re “mentally disabled” or “trying to get attention” or any of that bullshit. (seriously, those “memes” making fun of LGBT+ people make me sick.)

Yukina came home....! Ahhhhhh~!!

This cured my depression after my cursed Ako scouts the other day and I love this card so much. ; u ; I did 4 pulls when she came out and didn't get her.

Yukina is best girl! 💕 I love her, thank you bandori!!!

I did it!! ; u ;

Everybody is posting their new chisatos. It seems they forgot about O-Tae.

remember that post I made about a Yukisayo lovechild? well, I finally got off my butt and drew him, so meet Minato Hidaka / 湊陽京! (yes, that's a girly name. yes, he knows)

idk how to draw guitars and so I didn't rly bother

he's childhood friends with Ichigo, but ever since they've been going to different schools, they haven't really been meeting up much. Ichigo tried to get him into gaming but he's not really good at it, lol, and as good of a drummer as she is, she doesn't rly live up to Hidaka's level for someone he'd play in a band with.

speaking of which, Hidaka's still looking for a band ... he's got. uhm. somewhat unreasonable standards. if you're not a genius and/or someone who's been practicing since childhood you're most likely not gonna be enough for him

if we're talking Pride Month things, hello, it's me, your friendly neighbourhood aro(ace)! I don't particularly care about the ace part and I identify much more with being aro, so it's usually the only thing I mention. but yeah! we have arguably the ugliest flag design (why the greeeeeennnn) but it's still pretty nice to be aro

I actually used to id as bi for a long time; my family's very open-minded and as a child it was just kinda the most logical thing for a person to be to me, even above being straight. in hindsight, it's hard to figure out if my attraction to people just kinda ... faded out (cause sexuality can unfortunately be fluid and make everything even more complicated) or if I was imagining crushes that weren't there ... it's tough to recall what romantic love used to feel like to me, lol. (I'm inclined to believe it was the former tho, otherwise my friend and I went through all those fanfic clichés for nothing--) either way, it's hard to prove the absence of something, but I haven't been able to even force myself to see people in a romantic light in years, and it amazes myself sometimes how certain I am of this. honestly, I thought I'd never stop questioning, but nah, I'm just a tired aro (and my dislike for love stories & songs has grown exponentially with that realisation)

that aside, the fact that sexuality & gender is even a debate is sad to me; it really shouldn't matter unless you wanna date someone. maybe that's why I never really felt like I really belonged in the LGBT community, even when I was smugly identifying with the B part of the acronym. everyone's so loud and proud about it when they can be and I'm just kinda there, watching from afar. and now with [shivers] Ace Discourse being so prevalent, I also don't particularly feel welcomed there in the first place ... really, I just wanna be That One Girl That Doesn't Get Asked If She Has Any Marriage Plans Yet. (please, irl people, stop asking. the only marriage I will possibly consider is with my best friend for tax reasons.) everyone else just do their thing, I guess. as long as everyone's nice to each other, I really could not care less. the fact that Pride and the fight against homo- and transphobia and all its evil cousins is needed in this world really bums me out. I hope that some day, people will just let others live their life and be respectful of everyone who's also respectful back, regardless of things they can't change like these. but people are dumb and mean and hate things they can't understand which also bums me out

I guess the tl;dr of this post is that I exist in this weird void where I'm certainly not straight but also don't really identify with the LGBT community either. but that won't stop me from cheering ny'all on! Pride may be more of a distant thought to me, but it's important for many people, and seeing others be happy and confident with who they are makes me happy too. a lot of my friends are parts of the community much more than I am (over the past few years my peer group just grew less and less straight & cis lol), and I am absolutely ready to Fight any bigots in their name and just in general really. also if you're a TERF we cannot be friends, just to make that clear

okay have a good day!!!

SAYOTSUGU,,,,,REAL,,,,,,

sidenote: happy birthday to the hikawa twins!! :D

Hi my name is Ran Mitake and I have short ebony black hair with a red streak that reaches my chin and hot pink eyes like pepto bismol and a lot of people tell me I look like Ryuko Matoi (AN: if u don't know who she is get da hell out of here!). I'm not related to Gerard Way but I wish I was because I hate my dad. I'm a vampire but my teeth are straight and white. I have pale white skin. I'm also a rock star, and I go to a haunted school called Haneoka Girl’s High School in Japan where I'm in the first year (I'm fifteen). I'm a goth (in case you couldn't tell) and I wear mostly black. I love Hot Topic and I buy all my clothes from there. For example today I was wearing a gray turtleneck with a leather jacket over it, a studded belt with ripped jean shorts, pantyhose and black combat boots. I was wearing black eyeliner and black eye shadow. I was walking outside CIRCLE. It was snowing and raining so there was no sun, which I was very happy about. Pastel*Palettes, a bunch of preps, stared at me. I put up my middle finger at them.

What’s up gays

Its me

King Gay

im slowly beginning to realize that all the “crushes” I had on guys when I was young were lies i told myself as i wanted to feel like i was “normal” and not queer . . . but lemme tell you now that I AM queer and I am HERE TO STAY

I am very glad that this community exists! I do feel safe here and that’s relatively rare in my life (even though I know I am lot luckier than others due to other factors). I am going to try my best to keep being positive and not negative! I know I wasn’t the nicest on Sukutomo (due to bad life experiences) but I am going to try my hardest to be kind!! Thank you

This part of my shelf is exclusive for Bandori figures. If you want to see what else I got feel free to ask.